Never settle for somebody who makes you feel guilty for wanting. The right person should jump at the chance to give you what you desire emotionally, physically and sexually.
Don’t be with someone who calls you names. If you are going to fight, fight fair. A person who verbally cuts at you does so because they are not on your level intellectually.
Avoid someone who makes it about them. Selfishness takes many forms, but refusing to acknowledge your feelings by turning the focus on to themselves is master manipulation. Your feelings are valid because you have them in the first place. The right person will want to feel them with you.
Choose someone who moves mountains. Anyone can promise you the universe, but your soulmate will attempt to bring it to you. Actions are so fucking important.
Stay away from people who bring up the past too much. Every single day is an opportunity to create and shape yourself into something new. The past is irrelevant and everybody’s got something they’re not proud of.